Do you ever get the feeling the person you love is turning against you?
That realization could be a red flag you are dating a narcissist lover.
In this article, you will learn how to identify the signs of a narcissist. Fasten your seatbelts – it’s time to fly!
According to Mayo clinic, a narcissist is a person who shows symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder. The individual has high self-esteem and a huge sense of importance. It’s a way for them to feel important and admired. Beneath, this mask of inflated ego conceals a delicate psyche that hates any kind criticism
Your Narcissist Lover Just Can’t Stop Talking About Himself
They believe the world revolves around them. Narcissists talk about themselves as if they were Taylor swift. I mean come on! While dating a narcissist lover you can tell that they can’t see you as their true love.
They will share only their accomplishments and achievements, but nothing personal that could make them emotionally vulnerable. They might even show off what they ate yesterday.
Another thing you should watch out for: They may put you down and make you feel unworthy. That’s their way of saying, “I rule the world!”
Social Media Is Where They’re Based
Everyone loves getting likes on social media. However, when it comes to a narcissist you will notice they can’t get over their source of glory.
Clearly, they don’t want to miss out on the chance of bragging about their popularity in a conversation with you. They will tell you how many followers they have and how many likes they get.
In addition, a narcissist lover will keep posting to get others’ validation and approval. Instead of having a real conversation with you, they would rather stay chained to their Instagram posts.
Dating A Narcissist No Empathy, No sympathy?
Dating narcissists can be daunting. Sometimes you are having problems such as scuffling with your parents or even feeling depressed, but your lover doesn’t care about that. However, a narcissist discards your feelings and makes you feel misunderstood.
You should keep in mind that it bores a narcissist to feel you. They just can’t empathize or see how much you are suffering. They are incapable of dealing with emotions that are not theirs.
In other words, a narcissist in love as they pretend won’t be there for you.
Charming And Romantic But Not Enough
On your first date, narcissists appear to be the nicest people on earth. A narcissist lover will lure you into thinking no one can support or love you as they do. Narcissistic personalities are very clever in using tactics to bewitch you!
Above all, charisma is their one big attractor. They seem quiet and intriguing. That’s their way of making you wonder and whipping up your emotions.
On a first date, narcissists love to flatter you and make you feel very special. This isn’t real love. It’s a carefully planned strategy. Now you know! So, no more excuses. Got it?
A Narcissist Lover Never Takes A Relationship Seriously
There are several reasons for this, which mostly are related to selfishness. It’s like they are saying, “I want you, but there is enough room for others.”
They are going to let you wait for years – or forever. Your lover is not really interested in having that family life you are dreaming about.
In the end, it’s up to you! Dating a narcissist is just not fun, is it? Pack your clothes and everything. Because just like the song goes, “I’m movin’ on,” and you should be out the door.
YOU deserve love. So, why just suffocate yourself and go through that road.
Remember you are a unique person. Follow your heart, and happiness will find you.
I gotta leave you now, but I will be comin’ with more. Spreading love and good vibes.
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